Whom Shall I Marry? A Practical Guide to Choosing a Lifetime Partner

By Luis Palau

Introduction

Marrying the right person is one of the most important decisions you will make in your life. It's a choice that will affect the rest of your days, so it's essential to make it carefully and prayerfully. My friend, Luis Palau, has written an excellent book on this topic, called "Whom Shall I Marry?" In this book, Palau offers sound advice on how to choose a lifetime partner. He covers everything from the importance of character to the practicalities of finances and communication. I highly recommend this book to anyone who is thinking about getting married.**

The Importance of Character

When choosing a lifetime partner, it's important to look beyond physical appearance and personality. The most important thing is character. Character is the sum of our moral and ethical values. It's what makes us who we are at our core. A person with a strong character is honest, trustworthy, responsible, and compassionate. They are someone you can count on, no matter what life throws your way.

Unfortunately, character is not always easy to assess. People can be very good at putting on a facade, especially when they are trying to impress someone. That's why it's important to take your time getting to know someone before you make any commitments. Spend time talking to them about their values and beliefs. Observe how they treat other people. Do they have integrity? Are they kind and compassionate? These are all important qualities to look for in a potential spouse.

The Practicalities of Finances and Communication

In addition to character, there are a number of other practical considerations that you should take into account when choosing a lifetime partner. These include finances and communication.

Finances are an important part of any relationship. You need to be able to talk openly and honestly about money with your spouse. You should have similar financial goals and values. You should also be able to manage your money responsibly.

Communication is another key component of a healthy relationship. You need to be able to talk to your spouse about anything, both good and bad. You should be able to share your thoughts and feelings openly and honestly. You should also be able to listen to your spouse's perspective and understand their point of view.

Effective Strategies for Choosing a Lifetime Partner

There are a number of effective strategies that you can use to choose a lifetime partner. Here are a few tips:

• Pray about it. God wants you to be happy and to find a partner who will love and support you. Pray for God's guidance as you make this important decision.
• Get to know yourself. Before you can choose a lifetime partner, you need to know who you are and what you want out of life. Spend time reflecting on your values, beliefs, and goals. What are you looking for in a partner?
• Meet new people. Once you know what you're looking for, start meeting new people. Attend social events, join clubs, and volunteer. The more people you meet, the more likely you are to find someone who is a good fit for you.
• Be patient. Don't expect to find the perfect person overnight. It takes time to build a relationship. Don't get discouraged if you don't find someone right away.
• Trust your instincts. When you meet someone who you think could be a good fit for you, trust your instincts. If something doesn't feel right, don't ignore it. Your instincts are usually right.

Conclusion

Choosing a lifetime partner is a big decision. It's important to take your time and make the choice carefully. Pray about it, get to know yourself, meet new people, be patient, and trust your instincts. With God's help, you will find the perfect partner for you.

Call to Action

If you are thinking about getting married, I encourage you to read "Whom Shall I Marry?" by Luis Palau. This book will help you make a wise decision that will lead to a lifetime of happiness.

Tables

Table 1: The Importance of Character

Table 2: The Practicalities of Finances and Communication

Table 3: Effective Strategies for Choosing a Lifetime Partner